Thanks everyone. I have read all of your comments so far. I haven't done anything to the car yet, but I found a rear spoiler on Ebay for the car I have.
http://cgi.ebay.com/ebaymotors/ws/eBayISAPI.dll?ViewItem&_trkparms=algo=LVI&its=- I&otn=2&item=300312664829&category=33638&viewitem=

It has fiberglass finish, and yes it's black, but I would have this painted the same color as the car (the same color code), and then have it installed. I never thought of putting in a supercharger like blackice RS said, so I wouldn't do that. I have been on cardomain and I've seen many of those cars however. I like some of them. No offense atom, but I don't think black rims on my car would look too good. I like your suggestions CCF. The rims do look good to some, but a lot say they can be replaced, like marioman3138 said, buy rims from a newer Honda (or Acura). I thought of putting on 18 inch Acura factory rims from one of the newer Acura models. I have even considered getting the stock rims chromed if I don't get new ones. I do know if I get larger rims the ride will be rough, The speedometer and odometer will not be as accurate, and if heavier, somewhat lower gas mileage and not as good handling. If I get new rims, they will be chrome. And G-Mann, I didn't mean get a rear window wiper blade, I meant just a rubber blade that's between the window and the trunk lid.

I still have time to think about it, but I am still debating on all of these mods. At the very least I want xenon headlights, paint touch ups (depending on the price), and instead of a new exhaust system, maybe just get chrome exhaust tips.